What i'm wondering is okay i had the phone on all day, etc... my awake time was 35 mins out of all day, me messin with the phone, talkin , what not, and it said beside that (100%) i don't want that i don't think, so any ideas?
If your awake time is only 35 minutes out of an entire day, that's a good thing. This would seem to indicate that your phone is functioning as it should. Prior to the update there was an issue with battery drain because Bluetooth and something else weren't shutting down the way they should.
IMHO the bottom line is this, if you're battery usage seems to be in line with how you're using the phone, then the Awake Time should be a non-issue. If you're battery seems to be draining quickly and your usage is minimal then you should look into it. All of this having been said to lead to the fact that most reported this problem as no longer existing after the latest update.